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Are there any BDSM play spaces couples can rent in NYC? It seems like there would be a place where folks could try BDSM furniture/equipment without having to invest the money and space for it. | Your best bet would probably to go to Paddles. It is an open to public BDSM club that has a good assortment of furniture and devices.
k | If you had a BDSM slave...? and you could only talk to them online mostly, what are some *non-sexual* ways you would make them feel your ownership of them?
Examples would be making them sit on the floor and asking for permission to sit on furniture, telling them what color of clothing to wear, etc.
Specifically nonsexual being the other kind is easy to think up without help ;D
Oh yeah, pleez star this question if you are kinky! | hmm i always associated BDSM with sex so it seems strange to think about it as a non-sexual thing lol.
I suppose though you could control basically everything, when they eat, when they sleep, what they wear, what they do etc... im not too sure though. BDSM scares and intimidates me a little bit. | BDSM safety help? He wants to do more. How can I hurt him, without really hurting him? Ideas? Answer some Q's? I've only done milder things, and paddling, up till now, but he wants more intensity, and I want him to be safe. Please give me ideas, and advice even if it is not covered in my questions.
How rough can I go at him with a strap on, without putting him at real risk for injury?
How much weight can the testes hold safely? How much weight can his penis hold safely?
Is tobasco safe for the anus? For the penis?
How about icy-hot?
Tiger balm?
How safe is crushing? (by me jumping up and landing on his face, or on his chest?)
Will hot wax cause permanent burns or nerve damage?
Legal advice? Like should I make him sign a paper that says this is not domestic violence?
Should I steal his furniture, or his wallet, or something? Or do something else he's not expecting?
Is there some place I can find out what is legal and what's not? (I'm pretty sure it's illegal to make him bleed- right?)
Things I should look out for? Advice?
Thanks in advance. | Connor is the only one to give you sound advice thus far.
You might try to work on other aspects of the bdsm genre.
Denial: Place him in a bondage scene and leave him there for an extended period. Or get him near to the point of orgasm repeatedly without relief. Over and over again! Drives them nuts.
Or try humiliation. force him to do something in public, which will give you the power over him and he is made to be subservient as all males should be.
In so far as the length of the strap on dildo you should already have a good idea what is his anal depth. Don't go over that or you can create a fistula which is an opening that can cause dire results.
Try electric shock on a mild level. Very low voltage to start.
Some men like being poked with pins or even cut. Be careful when doing this not to injure him. Well not too much anyway.
I tend to like to mix erotic behavior in with various levels of torture. This leads the victim into a false sense of security until you whack him with a good whip!!!
Take your time and enjoy but please do so safely.
Cheers!
Sharon | Porn website; need opinion guys !? Hubby and I fought a lot. He yells, screams, curses, flip over furniture or kick 'em. The last time we were silence for almost 4 months. He works out of town 4 days a week.
We just reconcile just about 3 weeks ago. Then yesterday I found out many things he did during those 4 months. He is a member of swing social website. He is a member also of BDSM swing website. He created yahoo email for those activities. He bought a netbook which he never mentioned or reported to me. (I am his assistant for his business).
Somehow I hacked to that particular account.
He was looking for swing, contacted women on craigslist too.
I am not sure if he did succeeded on his pursue.
I am extremely bothered by the fact he is member of BDSM.
So there.
I already filled out forms for separation. Will be filed on the next business day
Thanks in advance. | You've already decided what to do, so, like Pearl, I'm wondering what the question is.
If you're asking my opinion about the BDSM porn stuff, I don't think looking at that kind of porn is a big deal at all. However, actively seeking sex outside the marriage is definitely crossing a line that should not be crossed. |
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