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What does it take it be a lingerie model? I'm only 15 but I already know I want to e become a model. I'm always told I am very mature for my age. I'm forever being mistaken for a 18 year old. Which usually ends up in stares, checking out and wolf whistles :L ahahaa!
And it's always been a dream for me to be a model. But atm, I'm 5.7ft so I'm not tall enough to be a catwalk model (I also found out the biggest measurements you could be from an ex-model on YouTube- and bust was 33" max and I'm 30" hips were 34.5" max and I'm 34", but at the waist I fell. Max 24.5" and I'm 25.5" "/)
So I explored my other options and I would be happy settling for a catalogue model or a lingerie model.
I just don't know where to go from here. I know all about Catwalk modelling, but I don't know a thing about being a lingerie model, or it takes.
Please people I need your help!
(P.S. One last thing! I have a scar on my going horizontally down my stomach. Starting from under my bra ends to about 3 inches above my belly button. But I don't let it get me down. I'm so happy with my body. I'm just worried model agency's won't be so nice "/)
Thank you!
Answers asap!!
;) | Ugh, I think you have to be either 18 or 21. By then your body is done wiht it's growth. Your 5'7'' you might grow a little.
I've being told I should be a lingerie model, when I was slimmer and i'm just 15 too :P
I don't know if height plays a big role. but i'd say 5'6''-5'9'' is good. And 34-24-34. But some lingerie models are 34D-24-36. I think you have to have big boobs, tiny waist, and curvy hips | Adult modeling agency? anyone in California know of a good adult agency for nude lingerie and nude modeling or a magazine like Playboy or Maxxim how do they hire models. Serious mature replies only. | www.adulthollywoodnorth.com/adult…
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They always need people so yeah good luck | Is it legal to take pictures of provacative/suggestive pictures of models that are minors? TMy dad is a model photographer and he gets requests from mature looking female ladies 17 and under to take photos that make them look good and sexy. This may be anywhere from bikinis and lingerie to sucking a lolipop, bending towards the camera, grasping breasts/arms crossed across breasts. Suggestive stuff but not explicit. General showcase of their human/feminine sexuality.
Such photos would not accent the fact that they are under age and exploit that fact. They are not taken to imply that such and such girl is younger than is legal or a young girl doing naughty things (basically NOT the stuff pedophiles would jump on), but more the stuff any straight guy in their right mind would say "wow, that's a sexy picture" without thought to age.
Pictures that he would NOT allow would be sexually exploitive/explicit pictures such as spreading legs wide, bending over with genitalia towards the camera, crotch rubbing/hands in pants, girl kissing girl, nipple pinching; so basically he would not take pictures of anything that in of itself is a sexual act. (Basically, if you can't legally do it on the beach, you don't take pictures of it, but slightly more than that... go one step further and make sure the pictures aren't exploitive... aren't done in a way that would/could be detrimental to the minor physically, emotionally, or socially. <since minors don't always know what they want, he would basically decide for them and not take pictures that the minor may regret in hindsight>)
To sum all this up: sexy pictures of minors at their consent that are non-detrimental and do not visually exploit the fact that they are younger than 18, but instead are tasteful sexual pictures of fully developed young women (he refuses to take pictures of females who look adolescent/not fully matured bodies).
I need facts on what is legal/illegal (contentwise) and how to go about doing this the right way under the law (forms,signatures,parental consent/presence?). Links much appreciated! =D | In the US it is NOT legal to shoot any person under the age of 18 years old in provocative poses. Not even their parent or guardian can approve of the photographing of such shots.
In parts of Europe, the rules are more lax. 16 years old is the age limit for such photos
Just because an 18 year old looks like an adolescent is not a legal reason for not shooting them, just as shooting an under age person who looks like an adult is no reason to shoot them and put yourself in jeopardy of going to prison as a guy porn provider | How much compromise is too much? If you don't feel like reading all this you can just skip down to the last paragraph, that's where I ask my main questions.
My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We live together, and our relationship is pretty serious. We love each other but I have been feeling increasingly trapped and unfulfilled in this relationship, and although I never usually ask for it I feel that I need some advice here.
He is very sweet and nurturing and I enjoy being with him usually, but it can be very hard because he is extremely sensitive to the point where I feel like I am walking in eggshells around him, and he is jealous of every person I talk to. I think that he is really insecure. It is hard to talk to him about issues because of his sensitivity and the fact that although he thinks he is very mature he actually responds to confrontation in a very guylike and defensive manner. He will also pout for hours or even days after talking to him about any issue. Because of this, I think I need help about how to talk to him.
The issue that I am having right now is that there are some things that I want to do that he vehemently opposes me doing. For example, I am fairly heavily tattooed, and have been since my boyfriend and I met, and he knows that I love getting tattooed. I would like to get a small one on my chest, but my boyfriend really doesn't want me to because my breast area is "his area." He also has told me many times that he doesn't want me to get any more tattoos on my legs because he likes them and thinks they are sexy the way they are now. Another example is that I model (we actually met because of that) but since we've been together he has told me that he refuses to allow me to model nude and he doesn't want me to model in lingerie or anything the slightest bit revealing although I would be completely comfortable doing this. He acts extremely jealous and suspicious of all photographers I work with.
So my question is, is it so unreasonable for me to be upset about these and other issues? I know compromises are a part of relationships but I feel like all of the compromises we make are limiting what I can and cannot do, never him. I feel trapped in this relationship, like he is trying to control me and put me in a box so he can just keep me to himself. He is always all over me and I have lost contact with a lot of friends since I've been with him, and the ones I still talk to I rarely get to see. I want space and autonomy in this relationship but I don't know how to ask for it. I understand he wants to compromise but on some issues I don't. I want to do what I want to do. Is this fair??? | | .My girl friend applied for a position of hostess on a liner.One of the clauses was a strict rule about tattoos.None were permitted as she might have to model the ship's clothing.This is also true of the modeling industry.I've yet to see a tattooed model on the catwalk | Do I look too young for the career I am pursuing? Over the past year I have taken up lingerie and swimwear modeling, and normally photogs are fine with my look but recently I went to a casting call for a lingerie shoot and was told i didn't look mature enough for that kind of shoot. Do you think i look to young for what I am doing? I am turning 19.
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i68.photobucket.com/albums/i34/elissahenderson/new1.jpg | | is it really how old you look? i would think it's more how you wear it. it's not our decision, it's the guy that's hiring you, but i would think you look old enough. | Is it him or me? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We don't live together but we see each other all the time. We have a pretty good relationship..hes respectful of me, we have a lot of fun together and we trust each other totally. I would say that we have sex regularly. I wouldn't mind if it were more though. Although we have sex, I question if I truely turn him on or not. I have put on sexy lingerie and hardly got a reaction from him. I have suggested we take naughty pictures or make a movie together, but he isn't interested in that. He doesn't want to take showers or baths together or any of that other sensual stuff. I don't really have an issue with him looking at Playboy etc., other than jealousy, but is it possible that its more difficult to really turn him on if he is more used to seeing these models naked? Im no dog, I know he thinks Im beautiful. But I also feel rejected. Can I anyone give me some mature advice? And no, hes not a cheat. I know that for sure | Seriously, sit him down and discuss it. point-blank.
it will eat away at you and will cause serious internal conflict that will eventually erode your relationship, if you don't get it out.
even if you don't like what you hear; at least you won't have to wonder or have any self-doubt any longer.
honest communication about everything is the only way to make a relationship truely work. | Is this Halloween costume too suggestive? So I am 19 years old. I am still living at home with my parents. This Saturday my friends are having a Halloween party and I have to find a costume to wear. I've noticed that pretty much all the girls my age (and even younger girls) are going in a "sluttier" direction with their costumes this year. I'll admit that some of them are really cute......but I am personally trying to avoid looking like a stripper this Halloween. I know that my boyfriend and I will probably end up stopping at his house before the party. He also lives with his parents, so I wouldn't want to be dressed like a hooker in front of his mother and father anyway. However: I do want to wear something cute. I feel that I am old enough to wear a more "mature" costume. So I've been going over different costume ideas in my head. I was thinking of being a Victoria's Secret Angel. I would wear a T-shirt and sweat pants from Victoria's Secret, and a pair of big feathery wings. Then I would curl my hair like the models do, and I am tall so I could really make myself look like an Angel from the commercial (just minus the lingerie). I would be completely covered up in all of the right places, but I wouldn't feel set apart from the usual teen crowd on Halloween night. Basically, I am just looking for some feedback. Do you guys think it's too suggestive? Or maybe you have some better ideas.....it's getting really close to Halloween and I need to have my costume ready. Thanks for your input! (: | | Unless the party is for Puritans, there is nothing suggestive about sweats and a t-shirt. | How can I help my wife become more feminine? Some background is needed first... My wife was raised by a mother that had no time to show interest in her looks because she was too busy catering to chores and the needs of my wife's father. The last 5 years of her guyhood before we met was doing work on a horse farm which didn't require paying attention to self image or being image conscience. Although she had Barbies growing up, she played mostly G.I.Joe's with her older brother... I don't see many pictures of her (even as a young guy) wearing dresses, skirts, makeup, jewelry, or anything feminine so it makes sense she'd have a lack of interest in it... Although my wife and I have been together for 7 years it wasn't until half way through that I started caring about how she looked and how she carried herself, and although I had talks with her about this it wasn't meant to be naggy but to help encourage her sexual appeal to me so I would be interested in her in ways beyond love.
One of the reasons that I want her to dress/act/look more feminine is because we now have a daughter. So I want my wife to break out of her guyhood mold so she can be a good role model for our daughter and we can say we at least tried to encourage our daughter to not be a tom boy before she decides she is one... It's a known fact that tom boys unconverted to feminines are unsuccessful in the workplace, especially "Corporate America", so if she isn't a tom boy from the beginning she won't have a challenge growing up out of being one...
Another reason I want her to become more feminine is because I've totally lost my desire for her. Now I don't want any of you responding to this to think I'm shallow because by no means am I shallow; I love my wife very much and I think she's the smartest woman I've ever encountered. I'm just finding that as I get older and more mature (I'm 26 now and she's 27), my sexual interests have shifted from the "innocent girl" to the "feminine woman". So rather than saying I'm shallow I think it's more correct to call me having loss of sexual attraction to someone who acts and looks like a girl rather than a woman. Where my wife fits in all of this is that she's a girl trapped in a woman's body. She has a gorgeous body and with a little self pampering (no bushy eyebrows, doing something with her nails instead of growing them out, going tanning, getting her hair highlighted, ect) she probably could even be a super model, well at least in my eyes.
My last reason to help her become more feminine is her job requires it. She now works with multi-million dollar clients through her job as an accountant and her looks have to "fit the bill" if she wants to get raises or even promoted. If she can't fit a corporate image and/or be seen as a mature confident and classy adult then she's going to hinder her chances to be successful in this world.
So what kind of advice could you offer me on how to help my wife into this transition??? I've tried talking to her telling her that it's important to me that she tries to be more feminine since I find that attractive now and she says I should love her for her instead of trying to change her but I think she's missing the point that this isn't about love, this is about looking at your partner and knowing by instinct that you want to have sexual relations with them right then and there because you are attracted to them. In relationships, both parties have to make sacrifices and after 4 years of in consistant sex ranging from once a every other week to once every 4 months I think I've made my sacrifice already by not having sex once a day for 4 years!!!
Some other deatils about it all is I will always love my wife until the day I die but I'm not always going to be in lust for her if she doesn't try... She won't even wear lingerie without a struggle. I battled with her over shoes and how I think that sneakers are great for shopping but heels are great for dining and complete any lingerie outfit. I also fight with her over her hair since she always keeps it down to her shoulders and does nothing with it - no ponytail, no do-up, no highlighting, no perming, no curling, just the same old look every day even during sex. She also wears makeup so lightly that I can't even notice if she actually put any on and I know that makeup is all about putting emphasis on (and hiding) different parts of your face and it's also to put color into your face if you're naturally pale. She also has no interest in wearing clothes that fight her like my baggy t-shirt example from earlier so I have no idea what her figure looks like throughout the day and it gives me nothing to look forward to when our guys go to bed. And lastly, she walks/acts with no confidence in herself and you can tell.
Now I'll give her a few excuses on why she doesn't try harder. One is an obvious one, we have guys and there's not a lot of time to get ready. Another is because it wasn't an issue 7 years ago when I first met her and suddenly I'm different. Also, this | First things first - why is everyone bashing this guy!!
The problem is not that your wife was a tomboy, it's that she never grew into a woman. There is a fine line between being comfortable in your skin and not caring about your appearance. I'm a tomboy in the purest form of the word, always have been. I'll stay up late and watch Monday night football or March madness, I own like 3 dress including my wedding dress. I don't wear makeup except for maybe once a week. But the difference is I do care about my appearance and I do care how my husband views me. I've worked corporate jobs and you can get by without wearing dresses or being overly girly. But as a wife she should be concerned with making sure her husband is having his needs met and to say that's just who I am in selfish. It's not changing the rules, it's growing up and maturing. Not sure what to tell you on your daughter. I knew I needed to have a son b/c I wasn't very feminine and thankfully God answered my request :). Maybe another woman in her life could talk to her. Maybe even her mom, you said she was busy catering to the needs of her husband, so maybe she can talk to your about this need that you have to be more attracted to her. It's the little things, I still walk around the house in my hubands baggy shorts, but I pair it with a cute tank top. Maybe you can shop for little things that will meet both or your needs. Cute pajamas that you'd love to see her in, but don't buy them in pink or flowers as you're going to have to take baby steps. Or give her a spa day as a just because gift. Maye they can help her find a look that's cute, but also doesn't require a lot of maintenance. For me a big turn off has always been how long it takes "girly girls" to get ready for anything. My stylists found me a great haircut that requires less than 5 minutes a day and taught me little makeup tips that go a long way and take no effort. If I'm not wearing make-up I atleast put on lip gloss so I don't look like I just rolled out of bed. My mission is to make my husband want to touch me everytime he sees me. Yes, he embraces "the guy he married" but he's super happy that she's turned into a woman that he can love/lust forever. | My best(guy)friend is in love with me!!! Help!? Ok,I have a good reason to believe that my best guy friend of 3 years is well in love with me.
Here a detail of how I arrived on this conclusion that he loves me:
We met through my aunty because I had moved to UK from USA for my higher education and in UK is where he met me. He offered to help me get acquainted with the British culture and all although he's a canadian-british person whose also lived most of his life in canada. When he 1st met me he and I were a bit shy and went into Costa for our 1st coffee....and then our meetings progressed...We use to meet nearly every week twice or even more...or he would hang out at my place or i would at his...and sometimes when i use to feel home sick even late at night....i would ring him n he'd come to pick me up..and we end up renting movies frm blockbusters and watch em entire night....lols a plenty of times we'd doze off in the wee hours of the morning while watching movies back to back...whenever i use to go over to his, he use to cook for me...n mind u he's a great cook....But guys here comes the twist in the story...Even before I met him I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend and he very well knew it....And I always treated him like I would any of my good friends...
We would go for walks together, gym-hunts together and watch movies....lols...
Something wierd I noticed was whenever I went over to his gym to pick him up his gym-buddies would assume I was his girlfriend..whereas I wud end up telling em everytime that no I wasn't his girlfriend....
Anyhow...months passed like this...we became the best of friends...talked about everything ranging from lingerie to latest motocross race champions...
Then he had to move bk to canada....so i went to see him off...
Now for over two years we've been in constant touch via phone....at least 1 call every month..which he took as a promise from me ....because at first i wudn't call him that often..but he demanded that I made a covenant to him that we spoke once every month...So I did agree... And woaw! we can talk for hours at a stretch about everything..and he seems to have this urge to tell me all what had happened in the time we hadn;t talked... he would always say that how wonderful he found me, how he misses my humour and my smile...and the way i wud get tired of walking and lean on him whilst wearing my rollers skates to ask him to pull me...
He tells me everything...and hasn;t dated anybody since the time he has got to know me..which I find extremely strange for a man who is as attractive as him.(psst he is a model)
Anyhow, I've found him calling me when he's drunk and telling me how he wishes that he and I could be married and how happy and wonderful he'd feel....And then one day when i called him, his mother answers the fone and starts talking to me all these lovely things how his son never stops talking about me and how "in her words" her son was in "awe" of me....And then she ended up expressing disappointment in how I was going out with someone else (I am assuming my friend gave her that piece of info as well)
And again...this last month i got busy and forgot to call him...and he sends me this really big novel-like text....quite philosophical, said how I had broken our covenant and how he felt ignored...And i replied bk he was crazy to b thinking I was ignoring him..and then he wanted me to call him at the same time because he had a lunch break and missed lunch just to talk to me....
And again I find him...conveying the same feelings of him wanting to be with me but not saying "I LOVE U" outloud....
He is such a darling and nice person and I respect him very much for helping me mature as a person as he kind of mentored me when I had left home for the 1st time and came to a foreign land....
I do not want him to be hurt...and hence have been trying to get him hooked up with my friends or any good gals i know..but he seems to reject even the good-looking..decent ones....and ends up telling me he wants somebody just like me..and I am now finding myself in an awkward postion...
How should I tackle this dear friend of mine without hurting his feelings and without damaging our friendship because it is precious to me....
All u peeps who reply, i will be awfully grateful to u....thanks a bunch | There isn't an easy answer. ignore it and he's not going away without pain for him, tell him straight and it will still hurt.
He's going to take it very hard, there is going to tears, and the friendship is over in the short term. Perhaps forever.
If you try and stay friends then he'll take that to mean you might yet still love him.
The only chance this might not end badly is if he meets someone else.
He is going to have to accept you have a relationship, suffer and in time get over it - and you have to understand that. |
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